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Winston Churchill said, “To improve is to change. To be perfect is to change often.”
I don’t know anyone who is enjoys change. Not one person. Change is hard. We get into a rhythm or habit and it’s hard to break. This happens in all aspects of life: work, home, relationships, etc. But sometimes we have to change and that change is good for us in the long run. Easy to say. Hard to figure out which direction to go.
At work we are changing a lot of processes and systems in an attempt to simplify and streamline what we do. It is very painful, but concentrating on our goal of saving money and time helps. We won’t see the results for some time, because changing so much takes a really long time. I imagine it was similar when they built the pyramids, it took a lot of back breaking work and many years. Granted I work in a service industry so it is not physically demanding, but in every other way we struggle under the weight of the changes.
It’s much the same when we write. We start out with a first draft and by its nature it’s just ideas and scenes that seldom hang together completely. I’ve heard “drafts” called “garbage” and to some degree that’s right. Where we find the wonderful word pictures and turns of phrase are in the changes (edits). One of my writing mentors liked to refer to editing as “mining the jewels from the garbage.” So, with that in mind we realize change is required to discover the best story we can tell. Will it be perfection? Maybe to someone it will impact them in a profound way, touching them deeply, but whose to say what is perfect? Not me.
Webster’s says:
“Change” is to make or become different: alter. Synonyms: modify, mutate, transform, turn vary.
“Perfect” is to be be without defect or fault: flawless. Exact. Accurate. Impeccable.
With these definitions in mind I think that what I write can never be “perfect.” I write about people, family and relationships. The essence of these are “people” and “people are flawed.” That’s what makes them so interesting, compelling, and the very core of a moving story. My stories will never be perfect, but I can promise the characters will change over time. Isn’t that what living is all about – change? No, it’s about living and loving. It’s about enjoying the journey. Will we find ourselves in a perfect place? Doubtful, but it will be interesting.
What do you think is the most profound change? The seasons of the earth? The seasons of man?