Bonnie Tharp Books
I don’t remember anyone reading to me as a child, but maybe I’ve just forgotten. (Sorry, Grandma) When my son was little I always read to him before he went to sleep. It was our special time. I’d use different voices for the characters and eventually he memorized the stories and say them back to me. I loved bedtime story time. My son and I would each hold one side of the book, I’d read, and he’d turn the pages. We’d laugh and talk about the story or the character, or if he was super tired he’d drift off to sleep before we were done.
They say story time helps develop a better vocabulary, stronger reading skills as well as giving the parent and child a time together to wind down and be close. It also works with siblings!
When my grandson came along it became something special he would do at grandma’s house. And when he got older and wasn’t interested in reading a story together, we’d take turns creating a story. I’d start with a character and scene, he’d add the action. Then it would be my turn again. Some nights it was hard to stop because the story kept evolving and instead of a quiet time before sleep, we’d get all jazzed and the creative muse kicked in for both of us.
My son is not an avid reader like I am, but my eldest grandson devoured stories in junior high and high school and even now enjoys a good book (when he has time – he’s in college now). My youngest grandson has his favorite stories, but he’s pretty much an electronic kid. Video games are his favorite past time, even before bed.
I’ve heard of people who read to their pets and while I’ve never done it, I can see how it could be relaxing. My husband used to read to me sometimes and frankly, I loved it! His soothing base voice painted lovely pictures from one of his favorite authors, whose name escapes me right now. I believe the book was called “Tranquility” and the stories were about nature. Very cool stuff, even for a girl.
I posted a link to an article about the value of bedtime stories on Facebook and it got tons of responses. Many folks shared their favorite books as a child. One of my son’s favorites was a little golden book about one of the Muppets, Sherlock Hemlock. The spine is held together with masking tape due to lots of love and reading. Paddington Bear was another favorite, but that book is long gone. But we do have several of my husband’s childhood books that we shared with our grandsons. Sir Kevin of Devon was the youngest ones favorite.