Bonnie Tharp Books
Even writers get the blues. I’m no exception. There could be any number of reasons: the weather, work stress, word events, hinky health, lack of sleep – whatever it is, you’re blue. An entire genre of awesome music has been created to express the blues; since 1912 (according to the internet – “and we all know they always tell the truth on the internet”). And art – well, Picasso’s blue period and “The Old Guitarist” touches my heart and makes me tear up.
The fact of the matter is, life is up and down. “Stuff happens.” When we most need to be strong, we usually are, until the need has passed. Then we fall into bed and sleep for twelve hours, waking up feeling like we’ve run a marathon. Or we eat a bag of Oreo cookies and feel sick enough to go to bed and sleep off the sugar crash.
Sound familiar? No doubt. We humans are a resilient bunch. We survive illness, death of loved ones, loss of jobs, accidents and betrayal. Maybe we’re all just stubborn?!
“That which does not kill us, makes us stronger.” ~Friedrich Nietzsche
Personally, when I’m struggling, I want to smack the next person that says that quote. It just doesn’t help, because when we’re down it’s hard to see the “bright side.” Remember, they mean well. The trick is not to be down too long. I find that if I just go with it for a bit – I get through it a lot quicker, than if I try to bury it. That’s when the blues sneak up and smack you right up the side of your head.
So, what am I going to do about it? I’m NOT going to wait for the sun to come out. I’m going to go for a nice long walk on this cloudy day, smell the clean earth, new flowers, cut grass and probably the dog poo Lucy will deposit on the path. (I will clean it up.) And when I get home I’ll mop the floor, balance the checkbook, and see if hubby wants to go to a movie. I might even write. Odd that the thing I love so much is the thing that I don’t do when I’m blue.